To be successful in life, one of the things needed in life is hope or despair.
If there is hope and disappointment in a person’s life, then that person will catch hold of the boat of that life and become successful in his life. Here by hope and despair I mean that you have a VISION and MISSION in your life. And you will move forward by working on that VISION and MISSION and you will keep working on that VISION and MISSION and no negativity will come in your life.
If a person does not have any VISION and MISSIO then that person needs some big disappointment and shock in his life. When a person faces a major disappointment in his life, he is forced to Redesign, Rethink, Replan, Rebelieve his life and that person finds solutions from the disappointment to move forward in his life and moves forward. | Like someone was doing a good job in his life and was well settled. And suddenly due to some reason, the job is lost, then that person is forced to rethink himself and from this disappointment, that person will design his life, do THINKING and he will move forward like starting a business, starting a company. To do etc.
If a person has a hope (VISION) from the beginning then he will keep moving forward by working on that hope. For example, let’s take the example of our respected Baba Saheb Ambedkar ji. He spent his childhood playing and studying well and there was no shortage of money because his father had retired from the post of Subedar. When he felt very disappointed in his life, he He was going from his village to the city to meet his father, when he got down from the train and after getting down at the station No horse cart driver was ready to take him to the city because his caste was an Aghut, then with great difficulty at night a bullock cart driver agreed with more money. But at night when on the way he found a dhaba to eat. But when he stopped there, the restaurant owner refused to even give him water, so he remained hungry and thirsty the whole night. Then he wrote about his great experience of this incident and for the first time he thought that What is the value of Aghoot, then he thought that I am wearing coat and pants, I am good looking and have money, then this is my condition, then what would be the condition of other Aghoot and this is where the seed of doing something for Aghoot came in his mind. Fell
In the second example, I take Shri Tulsi Das ji, the author of our great book Ramcharitmanas, how disappointment in life made him the author of a great book. Tulsidas ji loved his wife deeply. Then there was a time when his wife had gone to her parents’ house on Rakshabandhan, Tulsidas ji was left alone but he could not bear being alone and at midnight he left for his in-laws’ house. When there was a river on the way, he made a boat out of a dead body’s bundle made of four bamboo sticks and crossed the river. The river was at its peak during the rainy season on Rakshabandhan and he crossed the river on only four bamboo sticks. of When he reached his in-laws’ house, it was midnight and it was raining heavily, so he could not see anything and there was a black snake hanging on the roof of his in-laws’ house, so he thought of it as a rope and climbed up. When he reached his wife, his wife asked him how he came inside, then he told that there was a rope hanging and climbed up, holding it, then his wife said that there is no such rope, then later she saw that it was a snake. So here his wife said angrily, If you had loved God as much as you love me, you would have found God. Then Tulsidas ji felt very bad and here he felt very disappointed and at that very moment he left everything and went towards penance. He went and gave us the great book Ramcharitmanas.
Therefore, it is necessary to have one thing in our life, hope and despair, which will work to take you forward.