Disadvantages of blaming someone else.
It is becoming a habit among most of the people these days that if any work is not successful or we face any problem in life, we give up on our failure by pointing fingers at others or blaming someone else. And they do not consider the solution by attributing the problem to someone else.
What happens is that the person tries to avoid his responsibility and the result of which is that the person eliminates the scope for improvement in himself and closes the way to make himself powerful, intelligent and And wherever he is, he either remains at the same place or goes down and puts his responsibility on others and keeps calling himself great and keeps blaming others for any problem.
If a person learns to face any problem and develops a habit of improving himself, then I can promise that that person will become very great because after the mistakes he makes and after improving from them, he will be able to become the next person. Will be version and will be able to take himself to the next level.
When we point a finger at another person, remember that four fingers are pointed towards you, which teaches us that before pointing a finger at another person, think for yourself how right you are.
I would like to suggest that if any problem arises, then face it courageously and consider the means to solve it, rather than pointing fingers at someone else and blaming him. If any mistake is made, then first of all accept it and improve it. Do this so that you do not make the same mistake next time and you open the way for yourself to move forward.
And when you accept your mistake wholeheartedly, first of all you get self-satisfaction and then you sit peacefully, think about the problem calmly, correct it and resolve that the same problem should not happen again in your life, due to which you feel very proud of yourself. You will find yourself moving forward because by correcting every mistake, you are inculcating good habits in yourself.
Swami Vivekananda ji has said that “If you see bad things, you will not find any bad ones in your heart, there will be no one bad from me”.
Meaning, before looking at the mistakes of others, you must consider your own mistakes and improve them and stop blaming others for any loss and problem.