Whatever thing or task you are afraid of, do it and you will never be afraid of that thing or task again.
At every turn of life, whether young or old, we feel afraid of some thing or work. The best way to remove fear is to do that work, then we will never be afraid of that work or thing.
The best example I can remember which everyone must have faced is that when we are very small children our parents tell us to do some task like son go to sleep a ghost will come and in the dark the child is scared. He goes and tries to sleep and falls asleep and by doing this again and again, it gets absorbed into the subconscious mind of those children and they become afraid of the dark and remember that a ghost or Rakshasa will come.
One day, by repeatedly speaking to those children, he turns on the lights and looks around the four corners of the house and room, then he asks the parents where the ghost is, is there anyone there and then he talks to the ghosts and demons. He is not afraid and then when his parents say something, he ignores it. Here I want to tell you that after doing the thing that scares you, you will feel very confident.
You will feel powerful and gradually not be afraid of anything.
Youth and young people are always afraid of marriage because social media society and jokes and comedy show people have spread so much negativity about marriage that whether it is a boy or a girl, they are so afraid in the name of marriage that in the name of marriage, They lose their life and even they know that they have to get married when they think too much and waste their youth when they get married after 30 due to defeat, compulsion, pressure of society and pressure of parents.
When after getting married you come to know that there were not so many problems in the marriage but the fake ones were so afraid and the ghost of their marriage goes away.
Secondly, the biggest fear that most of the working people have is that if the company fires me then how will I get a job, what will happen to the family, parents, how will the family run.
I would like to tell you that you should not think like this, this thinking will keep troubling you and you will not be able to do the current job properly and if you change the job then you will not be able to do the job there properly. If you feel that in the company or team If things are not going well then change your job.
According to me, the biggest fear of all this is that some company will fire you, just give your best, whatever is in your hands, that’s all you can do.
The thing to keep in mind is that any company becomes big only because of its employees and the owner of the company also knows that if he does not value the employees then his company will never be able to progress.
Sometimes it is found that if a person gets into a wrong relationship, then he does not separate from this relationship thinking about what will happen next, whether he will get a good partner or not or what the society will say about this family. What will people say? Brother, I would like to tell you that just think about whether you are living a suffocated life at home, every moment of every day, are you dying bit by bit or are you living life crying every day, then you are You are feeling ashamed, you are getting humiliated every moment, why do you want to stay in this relationship? You will be different when you will realize how good life is after separating from that relationship.
By not being able to separate from the toxic relationship, you had created the ghost of your own fear and had always strengthened this fear in the society and family.
When you separate from that toxic relationship, you will be able to fly in ten directions with open wings, you will be able to live your life as per your wish and do whatever you want to do and gradually after some time you will also get a good partner.
All I have to say is that whatever thing or task scares you the most, do it and it will come out immediately.
For example, police station, court, court, you are afraid of them, just do it, you will find in 3-6 months that all these are made for our protection, security and help and then all of them will start seeming like your friends and then you can easily understand them. It will feel as if you are going to meet a friend.
ARVIND