Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world today I am wise so I am changing myself.
It is true that only smart people have been wasting their time in changing others who are never going to change because the other person is always right in his own sense, that person is never wrong in his own opinion. A person is always right according to his thinking because whenever that person is doing that work, he is doing this and that because it is right according to him.
Like a terrorist person goes to a small children’s school with many bombs tied all over his body and kills all the children and there is screams and cries all around, there is an atmosphere of fear all around and everyone is crying. | So if you ever talk to such people, they will call themselves so great that you will feel that according to them no one is that great because to make them do acts like terrorism, such things are put in their mind that terrorists do not do such acts. They start thinking great and do this work by risking their lives.
I am trying to explain here that every person is always right according to his own thinking and it is difficult to bring change in the thinking of other people.
Yes, if you want to change the person in front of you, then first change yourself, then there is a possibility that that person may learn something from you and change himself.
That’s why intelligent people never try to change the world. They first try to change and improve themselves. They work hard to make themselves the next version of themselves. We try and constantly make changes in ourselves and keep improving ourselves and thinking every moment of every day and keep becoming great.
For example, Gautam Buddha always improved his life and after some time went and inspired other people because when a person makes himself great and gives knowledge to others only after improving himself, then he The light of a person falls on other people.
For example, a person says that money is all an illusion and when you reduce the speaking fee by just ₹ 10,000, he gets angry and starts getting angry that the conversation was done for so many rupees, why should you reduce ₹ 10,000. Have been.
Whereas just a little while ago he was giving the knowledge that money is all an illusion and if he himself is not following it then such a person does not shed light on others.
I believe that always improve yourself, every person always needs some improvement and you make the next version and become great, only then you can bring change in another person, not if you don’t change anything and others. Always keep trying to change, all your efforts will always fail.
For example, a woman came to Gandhiji and said, Bapuji, my son eats too much sweets, you should refuse him because eating too much sweets is not good for health, then Gandhiji said, if you come after a week, then the woman again asked Gandhiji. When she reached Gandhiji’s house after a week, Gandhiji told the woman’s son that eating too much sweet is not good for health.
So the woman asked Gandhiji, Gandhiji, you could have said this even 7 days ago. Why did you make me wait for 7 days for this? Gandhiji said that 7 days ago, I too used to eat too much sweets, which I do at work. So how can I give knowledge contrary to that to others?
I stopped eating sweets in 7 days and then I was able to tell your son that eating sweets is not good for health.
First change yourself, become great, then try and expect from others.